About Us

Welcome to Loha Dating

We're so glad you have made it over here and we will do all we can to increase your chances of success when it comes to meeting someone online. This page is your go-to for learning how to navigate this site, how it works and for more detailed information about our Deepsyke AI Dating Oracle Coach and the eight psychology archetypes that will show you what your dominant psychology style is and how that relates to your relationships (scroll down this page for info on the types and don't forget to ask your Deepskye coach which type you are ;)

Understanding the Loha Philosophy

First, lets get grounded in the Loha philosophy. We believe in cultivating an open minded, switched on and inclusive, non-judgemental community when it comes to who you are what your relationship preferences are. That means Loha welcomes everyone, whether you seek a traditional relationship, long-term companionship or short-term romance. Respect, boundaries, consent, and grown-up communication are the only prerequisites here.

Our Deepsyke AI uses a unique, proprietary system based on 14 years of research into neurochemical types, ensuring sound and realistic compatibility advice. This isn't superficial matching; it's matching operating systems based on basic information and assessment responses. Loha is about freedom, self-realization, honest and transparent communication, fun, excitement, intelligence, and quality. Your authenticity is your greatest asset.

We maintain high standards with zero tolerance for abuse, verification options and active [daily] moderation, creating a curated space for genuine connection!

Getting Started on Loha:

Creating Your Profile

Creating your Loha profile is the beginning of your journey toward authentic connection.

The Foundation—Basic Information:

• Provide your date of birth, ethnicity, and career.
• Please be accurate with things such as gender and DOB as this data feeds into our neurochemical compatibility algorithm. It won't work properly with the wrong information!

The Deepsyke Assessment Questions:

Answer a series of subtle probes that reveal your underlying neurochemical patterns (processing, stress handling, pleasure, and relationship approach). Take your time; the goal is authenticity.

Add your Archetype to your profile

so everyone knows what your core type is. This is not mandatory but helps the community organise itself with far more intelligence (you can also filter your search based on the archetype eg. search only for Knights and Warriors.)

Your Photos—The Visual Story:

Choose recent photos that show your face clearly, you doing enjoyable activities, and a range of expressions. Don't worry, we don't have algorithms that will discriminate based on your photos. But still put your best foot forward!

Your Bio—Authentic Expression:

Keep it honest, genuine, specific, and focused on values and personality. Be witty, wise and leave a few stories untold to add some intrigue.

Initial Exploration:

Pay attention to the types of people you're matched with and how Deepsyke AI responds to your impressions.

Matches:

As with other sites, when you and another person both like each other it is considered a match! You can message each other. If you message without a mutual match, the other person will need to accept your request first.

Deepsyke AI - Your Personal Dating Coach:

Deepsyke AI is Loha's most revolutionary feature, unique and exclusive to LOHA users. It's a companion-coach "bot" that provides a highly personalized, insightful way for you to interact.

What Makes Deepsyke Different:

It uses a scientific model that decodes your neurochemistry to read into your hidden psychology patterns.

How to Access Deepsyke:

Find the purple Deepsyke logo profile in the featured members, click the message tab, and start messaging.

What You Can Ask:

• Discover Your Archetype: Ask "what is my type" to learn if you are a Maiden, a Knight, a Huntress, or Warrior (among the eight types).
• Personal Insights: Ask about your strengths, conflict handling, and communication style or anything you want deeper insight about.
• Dating Strategy: Get suggestions for conversations, messaging, and how to interact specifically with other types.
• General AI: You can use it as a general AI though it doesn't process long responses or access real time information from the internet. You can still ask it about practically anything and it will respond like a regular AI.

Important Limitations:

Deepsyke will not access information from your profile besides the metrics needed for a type calculation and will not access anyone else's. It is not a romantic GF/BF companion and does not engage in sexually suggestive or offensive conversation.

Credits, Membership, and Features:

Loha operates on a credit-based system for flexibility.

Credit System:

$1 equals 10 credits. You get 100 free credits on sign up, which can be used for up to a 10-day trial premium membership, stickers, gifts, and profile boosts. You can purchase credit packages that will help you save by giving you bonus credits as you purchase higher tier packages (for instance $50 will give you 600 credits which is a saving of $10 compared to the standard price).

Free Membership:

Browse and message other free members, like profiles and use basic features.

Premium Features:

Browse and message everyone, Video calls, Phone calls, Use Deepsyke AI, See who liked them, Encounter feature (quick swipe), and other advanced features.

Flexible Premium:

Can be paid by Day, Week, Month, 6 months, or Year. Use credits from your account to buy premium without an online purchase (credit system is internal to Loha).

Safety First: Online Dating Wisdom for Modern Times

Loha encourages awareness and judgment for safety.

Profile Verification and Red Flags:

We do not check profiles unless they are reported, so you are the first line of defense. Watch for profiles with only one or two photos, immediate requests to move to other platforms, and stories that don't add up.

The Blocking and Reporting System:

Read terms of use, report abuse, and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable.

Meeting in Person:

Meet in public places for the first several dates. Tell a friend where you're going, arrange your own transportation, keep your phone charged, and trust your instincts.

Financial Safety:

Never send money, share financial information, or accept requests for gifts or financial assistance from someone you haven't met in person.

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The Science of Connection - Archetypes and Compatibility

The Four Neurochemical Types: Understanding Your Brain

Loha's matching system is based on two key neurotransmitters: dopamine (drive, reward, Yang energy) and serotonin (stability, calm, Yin energy). Your unique balance creates your neurochemical blueprint.

1. SS
High Serotonin, Low Dopamine

Deep, stable processing, resistance to change.

2. SD
Balanced Serotonin and Dopamine

Strategic thinking, emotional intelligence, adaptability.

3. DS
High Dopamine, Some Serotonin

High creativity, love of novelty, charismatic.

4. DD
High Dopamine, Low Serotonin

High drive, ambition, decisive, relentlessly goal-oriented.

The Eight Dating Archetypes: From Mystics to Warriors

The eight archetypes combine the four neurochemical types (SS, SD, DS, DD) with energy expression (Yang/masculine and Yin/feminine energy). Yang energy is active/initiating; Yin energy is receptive/containing. From this point forward, we will refer to the types solely by their archetype names.

Female Archetypes (Yin Energy)

The Mystic (SS Female)

Innocent, deeply feminine, nurturing, often artistic, and prone to health issues.

The Maiden (SD Female)

Free-spirited, adventurous, independent, expressive, and emotionally aware.

The Queen (DS Female)

Independent, professional, strong-willed, refined, and status-aware perfectionist.

The Huntress (DD Female)

Strong-willed, determined, competitive, action-oriented, and fiercely independent.

The Mystic:

Women with the Mystic archetype predominantly exhibit qualities of innocence, purity, maternal tenderness, softness, and profound femininity. They are often strikingly beautiful and naturally attract attention. While they may sometimes grapple with self-esteem issues, they become incredibly powerful and thrive once they own their feminine essence. The Mystic is caring, compassionate, and often creative or artistic, appreciating the simple life. They may fulfill the role of a homemaker or traditional wife, but their inherent intelligence and social skills also make them well-suited for a career. Despite possessing high energy levels, they are prone to health issues and must prioritize keeping their immune system strong. A key developmental need for the Mystic is learning to establish healthy boundaries in relationships and friendships, which often requires them to consciously learn to say "No".

The Maiden:

The Maiden archetype is characterized by a free-spirited, adventurous, passionate, and expressive nature coupled with emotional awareness. They are often viewed as the modern woman, defined by their strong independent nature and ability to be completely at home "hanging out with the boys." Despite this outward independence, their inner nature remains soft and feminine. Due to their exuberant vitality and capacity to offer their gifts to the world, they are considered the ultimate caretakers of the human race. Often, the Maiden faces many challenging situations and obstacles in life that force them to grow, making them generally less innocent than the Mystic. They pursue a life of reckless honesty, self-reliance, and discipline balanced with free, uninhibited self-expression. They love adventures and the outdoors, but also deeply appreciate old-fashioned romance, poetry, and genuine connection. While they may be polite and restrained, showing attention to social etiquette, they perpetually long to be free and wild.

The Queen:

Women who predominantly possess the Queen archetype are independent, professional, strong-willed, and regal, exhibiting a tendency toward perfectionism. They are frequently strikingly beautiful and can easily play the part of the seductress. They carry a high degree of personal integrity and are aware that they are what many consider "high value," which sometimes makes them aloof. The Queen's mind tends to wander and free associate, meaning her focus is not always singular, unlike the Huntress. She often juggles many projects and social situations, valuing her family and friends highly. She is deeply aware of social status and possesses a strong ability to read the dynamics in any situation. She is typically refined, skillful, sophisticated, and knowledgeable, enjoying fun and games. However, she can sometimes be perceived as self-absorbed, "snobby," or cold in her communication. Overall, she is a strong, modern woman who appreciates the quality of life in all its forms.

The Huntress:

Women who embody the Huntress archetype are strong-willed and independent, often epitomizing the feminist personality expression of modern times. They possess great strength in body and mind, equipped with a determination and willfulness that allows them to meet many of life's battles and emerge stronger than before. The Huntress is fair, honest, and noble, fueled by an optimistic energy that assures them nothing can hold them back from achieving their goals. Their focus is usually on career, work, or business, and they are often fierce advocates for noble causes. They frequently serve as an inspiration to those around them and are depended on for their guidance, encouragement, and support. Their nature is not necessarily soft and feminine in the traditional sense, a fact that bothers some Huntresses more than others. They can be very hard on themselves, sometimes presenting as stubborn or even controlling. They flourish best when they learn to be less critical and more accepting of a wide variety of life situations.

Male Archetypes (Yang Energy)

The Magician (SS Male)

Intuitive, creative, spiritual, empathetic, and seeks individual truth/identity.

The Knight (SD Male)

Charming, romantic, chivalrous, technically proficient, and focused on self-development.

The Warrior (DS Male)

Inspiring, sophisticated, highly professional, social, and status-seeking.

The King (DD Male)

Stereotypical "alpha male," reliable, dependable, workaholic, and a natural leader.

The Magician

The men who embody the Magician archetype are intuitive, creative, unique, and spiritual, priding themselves on their individuality. They are often highly intelligent, funny, innovative, and analytical, finding enjoyment in the challenges of developing their own skills and living life on their own terms. They are typically sensitive, empathic, compassionate "old souls" who seek to include all things in their all-encompassing philosophy. The Magician is often drawn to the dark and shadowy depths to seek their truth, and they do not fit with conventional male stereotypes. While this may present a challenge to their self-esteem early in life, they learn to adapt and forge their own powerful masculine identity through the pursuit of perceptive powers and sometimes psychic or magical abilities.

The Knight

The men who embody the Knight archetype are often charming, romantic, and chivalrous, seeking to live a wild and untamed, adventurous life. They are typically helpful, salt-of-the-earth types of men who are proficient in trades and skills that require technical knowledge. Extroverted, confident, and outwardly focused in their social expression, they enjoy romance and treating women in the "old-fashioned" way with politeness and gestures. The Knight usually places a high value on health, fitness, and self-development. They can be entrepreneurial, success-driven, and focused when it comes to business or endeavors that require commitment. Though capable of being very emotional and passionate, they maintain a foundation built on competence and dedication.

The King

Men who embody the King archetype are the most stereotypical "alpha male" expression of all the types. They are usually physically strong and mentally focused on achieving success. They are solid, reliable, and dependable, displaying strong loyalty when it comes to family and friends. Possessing strong personalities, they sometimes embody the workaholic expression, being very committed and hardworking. Emotionally, they can tend to be young and sometimes a little ego-driven, which can be both their power and their downfall, depending on how they navigate their expression in the world. At their best, they are very inspiring and magnanimous, with a natural flair for performance and leadership. They are fierce in battle, fighting for what they think is a worthwhile cause, and seek to elevate others to their potential.

The Warrior

The men who embody the Warrior archetype are the inspiring, sophisticated, and advanced role models who can uplift those around them simply with their presence. They typically attain a high degree of professionalism and status in the community and are renowned and respected for what they do. They are social, smart, funny, and a lot of fun to be around. The Warrior highly values skills, constantly working at refining or upgrading them to attain a state of perfection. They are usually well-traveled, educated, and worldly in their pursuits and interests. Often athletic, they tend to be lean and well-coordinated in sports and games. Competitive and status-seeking, their only downfall is that they can be too focused on image and tend to view everything as a competition on a subconscious level.

Polarity and Attraction: The Hidden Dynamics of Desire

Polarity is about neurochemistry and energy dynamics, which can happen in any gender combination.

• Traditional dynamic (e.g., King + Mystic). High drive meets high stability.
• Reversed Polarity: Yin Archetype + Yang Archetype: Dynamic where the Huntress brings drive and the Magician brings depth.
• Balanced Polarity: Balanced Archetype + Balanced Archetype Harmonious relationships (e.g., Knight + Maiden).
• Same-Pole Dynamics: Yang Archetype + Yang Archetype (or Yin + Yin) Shared language but shared blind spots (e.g., King + Warrior).

The goal is integration—using the relationship as a tool to develop the parts of yourself that aren't naturally dominant.

Compatibility Guide: All 16 Possible Combinations

Relationships are a tendency, not a destiny—any combination can work with awareness.

High Polarity (Maximum Contrast):

• King + Mystic: King is drawn to Mystic's depth; Mystic is drawn to King's passion. Challenge: King's need for action vs. Mystic's need for peace.
• Warrior + Maiden: Creative power meets balanced stability. Challenge: Warrior's need for novelty vs. Maiden's need for security.

Moderate Polarity:

• Knight + Mystic: Beautiful, balanced pairing. Knight brings stability and structure to Mystic's depth. Challenge: Can sometimes lack excitement; both may be too cautious.
• Magician + Queen: Creative and intellectual connection. Both are innovative and expressive. Challenge: Can struggle with consistency and practical matters.

Low Polarity/Same-Type:

• Magician + Mystic: Deep spiritual connection; both understand the need for silence. Challenge: Can become stagnant or isolated; may lack external motivation.
• King + Huntress: Power couple dynamics. Both bring high energy and ambition. Challenge: Can become competitive; may struggle with emotional vulnerability.

Conscious Dating: Using Your Knowledge Wisely

Conscious dating means choosing the mature approach: using your archetype to understand your patterns, accepting differences as opportunities for learning, and seeking growth.

• Contemplative Types (SS) (Mystic/Magician)
  Embrace depth while being open to new experiences; practice taking initiative.
• Balanced Types (SD) (Maiden/Knight)
  Use emotional intelligence to create harmony; practice embracing spontaneity.
• Creative Types (DS) (Queen/Warrior)
  Channel creativity into meaningful connections; practice follow-through and consistency.
• Dynamic Types (DD) (Huntress/King)
  Practice vulnerability and emotional sharing; learn to appreciate stillness and reflection.

Communication Mastery: From First Messages to Deep Connection

Communication is where theory meets reality. Understanding how to communicate effectively with each archetype is the key to successful first impressions and deep, lasting connection.

First Message Strategy:

Be honest, transparent, and use observation skills based on their profile. Avoid games; use mystery and ambiguity to engage their imagination.

Targeting Female Archetypes (Yin Energy)

The Mystic

Go deep quickly, gently. Use emotional vulnerability or a spiritual/philosophical observation.

Focus: Her inner world, values, or a shared sense of wonder.

The Maiden

Be adventurous and expressive. Show that you value freedom, honesty, and fun.

Focus: A shared love of the outdoors, travel, or an uninhibited experience.

The Queen

Be sophisticated and admiring. Acknowledge her status, skill, or professional achievements.

Focus: Her work ethic, refinement, or an intellectual challenge/game.

The Huntress

Be direct and confident. Show respect for her goals, strength, and independent nature.

Focus: Her ambitions, a cause she cares about, or her leadership qualities.

Targeting Male Archetypes (Yang Energy)

The Magician

Be intellectual and unique. Engage his analytical mind, creativity, or philosophical side.

Focus: His individuality, a complex question, or a creative project he mentioned.

The Knight

Be charming and value-driven. Show that you are a person of quality who values kindness and competence.

Focus: His hobbies (especially technical/physical), health, or an "old-fashioned" romantic gesture.

The Warrior

Be inspiring and complimentary. Acknowledge his status, professionalism, or worldly perspective.

Focus: His skill level, achievements, or a shared interest in travel/culture.

The King

Be honest and reliable. Show loyalty and appreciate his leadership and dependability.

Focus: His work, family, or his commitment to a worthwhile cause.

• Early: Establish rapport and demonstrate curiosity.
• Middle: Build emotional connection and shared understanding.
• Advanced: Involve vulnerability, shared values, and exploring a future.

Integration: Becoming Your Best Self Through Love

The ultimate goal is to become the right person—to achieve integration by developing complementary qualities.

The Integration Process:

• Self-Awareness: Use Deepsyke AI to explore your patterns and blind spots.
• Acceptance: Accept your core nature.
• Growth: Practice qualities that don't come naturally, such as a Magician taking more risks and venturing out.
• Integration: Your natural tendencies and developed qualities work together, resulting in greater flexibility and less reactivity.

The paradox of love is that you are attracted to people who embody qualities you need to develop. The relationship serves its purpose when both partners commit to integration rather than just using each other for missing qualities.

Frequently Asked Questions and Common Concerns:

Is Loha only for traditional relationships?

No, we cater to all open-minded people seeking all types of connections, from casual to marriage.

How accurate is the neurochemical matching?

The system is based on 14 years of research and provides a strong foundation, but communication, compromise, and growth ultimately determine relationship success.

Is Loha LGBTQ+ friendly?

Absolutely. The system matches based on neurochemical compatibility, not gender.

Conclusion:

The Loha approach provides a map to understand the invisible forces that draw us together and push us apart. Your journey on Loha isn't just about finding the right person—it's about becoming the right person, and in that becoming, you'll naturally attract and create the love you've been seeking all along.

Happy connecting!